Thankfully I had a birthday and my husband decided to buy me this suit in the wrong size, pleasure sports was excellent guiding me to the right size. I am happy with how joyful their staff is and how experienced they are with sizing women. I love my husband but I am not 3 sizes bigger, lol. This wetsuit keeps me so warm that I am now that girl who can't stop thinking about being in the water. I find myself so excited about my new water life that I am booking excursions into my calendar every month. Who knew all it took was a really great wetsuit. When I think back at why I stopped going out, I have to say that I felt really fat and ugly in wetsuits. I honestly feel shapely and beautiful. Thank you Xcel for the beautiful design. Thank you pleasure sports for the incredibly joyful service and thank you to my husband for believing in me.